How To Find Out What Women Want

I was recently thinking about how difficult it is to understand women. So I started to think of a way to better understand women and what they want. I figure if I give them what they want they will be happy, and I, in turn, will also be happy (no, not like that!). Here is a list of ways I thought up to determine what a women wants:

1. Dress up like a woman, wear makeup, etc. to get in her head (like the movie with Mel Gibson)
2. Do an Internet search
3. Ask them directly (or a friend)

The first idea certainly could be a fun one! But, I doubt that you could really hear what women are thinking and all like what happened in the movie, it seemed like a preety big fluke when he got electrocuted and all (there was nothing else on at the time, that's the ONLY reason I watched it!). Besides that would make it too easy. Not to mention all that girly stuff (pantyhose, lipstick, blowdryer, etc) can be expensive for someone on a modest budget like myself.

Do women want a really cute Pokemon car?

An Internet search can be done relatively easily and can yield a large number of results. The results can vary pointing to the fact that women are all a little different and not always pleased by the same things. Some of the suggestions out there might work, but this is not the end-all solution I would have hoped. As well, I think some women might lie on the Internet, or give out misleading information, to trick us guys. The following is an example of some information I found:

Why do women have time for everything and everyone else but me?

Are you interesting to talk to? Are you clean, well-groomed? Do you have a sense of humor? Do you listen to people? Do you project some self-confidence? Do you have ideas for places to go with a woman? Do you have any flair for conversation? Do you have decent social skills?Are you fairly intelligent, well read, passionate about something? Do you show any emotions? Just a few things that I look for in potential mates.

Good luck, Karen

This Karen makes note of a few good points to follow such as the importance of showering regularly and being able to participate in a conversation. However, this is Karen-specific and other women will be a little different. These tips are a good start but more specialized measures must be taken to please any particular woman. Another site of interest is www.allthatwomenwant.com. Look closely and you'll notice that the background is PINK, this is a colour that most women have admitted to want. Such information can help you give women what they want.

The last option seems like the best one, but easier said than done. A direct question such as "What do you want?" could result in generic or socially-accepted answers such as "A man with lots of money". The woman may also be hesitant in giving you the actual answer and may just tell you things farther down on the list of things she really wants. If the woman has friends (they quite often do!) they could be very helpful in giving you the inside edge, or clues to follow (such clues often will not come from the woman herself). Friends can be an invaluable information source and might even tell the woman that you are enquiring about her, which is flattering and may be part of what she really wants too!!

It appears that the best way to go to discover what a woman wants is to do a combination of an Internet search and actually talking to the woman in question (and/or any of her friends). Hopefully this is a good start to finding out what women really want.